No matter what our up bringing has been and how our parents have been towards us, when it comes to life and especially breast cancer, we need to nurture ourselves. Ask yourself now how you feed yourself, educate yourself and bring yourself up. How do you develop yourself? Do you feed your mind, body, spirit loving concepts or unloving concepts? What do you say about yourself? How do you speak about yourself in front of others?

This subject is very similar to nourishment when relating it to the metaphysical creation of breast cancer. The difference is that there is no blame on anyone else for how you are as we are responsible for our thoughts, actions, beliefs and results. There are no failures, only results. Your body will show you if you are not nurturing yourself by having pain, discomfort or disease. If you were a child to yourself, how would you raise and nurture you to have you grow in to a loving being? Why rely on someone else – do for you what you wish was done by others.

The mistake in healing breast cancer is when you rely on others to nurture – develop, educate, grow you as you have the power and choice to create your life. Surround yourself with loving people and inspirational people that will support your growth and enhance your core being which is love. Melanie stated she had a great childhood which was loving and nurturing. Her life was easy and she loved school. If this was the case why did Melanie have breast cancer? Something must have been blocking to create this disease.

As I sat with Melanie during her first session, I watched her body language and listened between the lines of her words. Melanie was full of praise for everyone except herself. She was so cruel on herself and such high expectations. Melanie was an ‘A’ grade student who did not recognize her own abilities. She saw herself as too fat even though she had an amazing body for a 55 year old woman. She chose not to eat too much in case she got fat and therefore she was starving herself of food. She also starved herself of nurturing as she was constantly expecting herself to be better in and all everything she did. Although extremely educated with several Masters degrees, Melanie educated her mind with ‘she was dumb’. She was made aware in the first session that she is always the parents – both Mother and Father to herself and was educating her ‘daughter’ or self as not good enough. These thoughts kept being pumped in to her left breast and 2 lymph nodes under her left arm. Melanie was quite devastated in what she had been doing to her self. Melanie was given a programme for 6 weeks to complete which included journaling, walks along the beach where she lived and to utilise the knowledge she had. She also imagined and visualised herself with herself as parent & child relationship to make her aware how she was treating the inner child within. Melanie was able to successfully overcome her learning lessons and live a life of freedom.

Copyright Jean Sheehan

www.absoluteempowerment.com

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